Ten (10) Things A Lady Should Avoid Doing To A Man That Wants To Marry Her

If you check well, it could be that your behaviour was

really embarrassing for those guys and unless you

take time to realise what those behaviours are and

put them right, good men will keep running away

from you.

Do you want to know the things that make men lose

interest in you and how to keep your man?

Maxnaija.com will be listing 10 things ladies do that

scare men away from them:

1. Clinging To Him Like Static: 

While it might seem like spending every waking 

moment together is fun at

first, it WILL get old. It’s more likely that he’ll feel this

before you do. All good relationships have a little

space in them. Give him time to miss you and

occasionally wait for him to initiate contact. Keep

your friends, hobbies and interests alive.

2. Over-Communicating: 

“Hihihihihi” , “What are you

doing?”, “How about now?”, “And now? I just thought

I would share what I’m having for lunch.”, “I sneezed

and thought of you!”, Ugh … just no. 

3. Nagging: 

It’s pretty much never a good time to

start chiding him about things he’s “doing wrong”.

You might change his behavior in the short term, but

the cost you’ll pay in his resentment is large.

4. Emotional Outbursts: 

I don’t know a person alive

who hasn’t at some point completely flipped their

top. It happens to everyone. However, freaking out

(and acting it out) is never good for your relationship.

If you’re prone to this, work on displaying your

feelings calmly. It never hurts.

5. Making Him Pay For Every Single Thing: 

I’m definitely a fan of courtship, but remember that it’s

sure nice to treat him also. Expecting him to cover

everything all the time is more than a little one-sided

and mean. It can also make him feel like you’re just

there for free dinner. 

6. Acting Entitled: 

Don’t act like you automatically

own his weekends, access to his wallet or anything

else. Be nice to everyone, and don’t treat anyone like

they owe you something.

Being Rude To Others: I realize that telling you NOT

to act like a jerk if you’re really a jerk isn’t going to

create meaningful change in the world. But for those

of you who have an edge, know that it can kill your

budding romance dead.

7. Making Him Accommodate Your High Maintenance Behavior: 

High maintenance behavior

has a lot of different manifestations. Maybe it’s not

leaving the house without looking like a fashionista or

wanting that perfect, specific food item. High

maintenance is a lot of things. They’re not all bad, but

you simply shouldn’t require him to suffer as a result.

For my sisters who look amazing all the time, go on

with your bad self. This is not about dulling your

shine or putting you down. It’s about… waiting time.

No one wants to feel like they’re with someone who

disrespects their time or that you can’t go for a

spontaneous walk because you wore “This Ordinary

Shoes”. So get the beauty routine figured out before

he shows up to pick you up for dates, and dress for

what you expect to do together…

8. Making Him Feel Less: 

If you try to do this to a

man, especially with spiritual stuffs, you are finished

if he by any means get to know about it. Love your

man with all your heart, you will enjoy him when he

feels you are truly in love with him and not after

some material things from him.

9. Making Assumptions: 

There are a ton of things to

make assumptions about when you meet someone

new, and the vast majority are a bad idea. Assuming

that he’s on the same page as you, automatically

thinking he’s “up to something” or wondering if he’s

already pulling away are all problematic. When in

doubt, have a chat with your man and make him feel

your love even more. Don’t compete with him.

10. Predicting That “It’s Over” And Then Making

That A Self-Fulfilling Prophecy: 

Maybe he doesn’t call at the exact time or day he says he will. Maybe

things seem “off”. The problem is that filling these

grey areas with doubt and mistrust will create a

problem where there wasn’t one before. Send him a

loving message and remind him that you are always

ready to work with him to achieve your desires and

most importantly, tell him “I love you!” with a

reassuring smile

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